pretty cool even ignoring the personal growth possible from epistemic bonding/specialization within couple
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Replying to @sarahdoingthing
What’s the difference between that and total codependence? What’s the reading of couples where partners die within days of each other (not suicide, just one dying = other gives up)
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Replying to @vgr
I’m not sure I believe in codependence but I hear the word a lot
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Replying to @sarahdoingthing @vgr
I'd love to hear more about your not believing in co-dependence
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Replying to @greenwoodae @vgr
for one thing it comes out of the very fake & suspect AA movementpic.twitter.com/1kPfHOfOCj
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vague but it seems like “depression + busybody response to lack of trust/safety” which isn’t about monogamy
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Replying to @sarahdoingthing @greenwoodae
Shared for provocation without comment http://thephilosophersmail.com/relationships/how-we-end-up-marrying-the-wrong-people …
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Replying to @vgr @sarahdoingthing
I love this. I'm once-married dating another divorcee and we're being so pragmatic about our relationship that we have shared google docs devoted to it
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Replying to @greenwoodae @vgr
I wrote this early in my marriage and still endorse it https://theviewfromhell.blogspot.com/2012/08/what-marriage-is.html …
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TLDR: if; for some reason, you either aren't sharing communal living things or either of you stop believing that your relationship will last forever, your relationship will be bad/not last forever?
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it’s more like that’s going to be a stressor that has to be made up for - plenty of outliers would do great in that situation
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