Anyone know of good writing with growth-oriented arguments for marriage or long-term romantic commitments? Mostly I find stability arguments, or reactions against monogamy (uninteresting), or people taking the goodness of committed LTRs/marriage for granted.
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and behind it all the possibility of human pair bond as an optimal zone of total alignment of interests
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Can you say more about what the total alignment feels like it does in your life? The thing I'm specifically interested in is the difference between moving on when you both grow out of what brought you together, versus committing to staying together no matter what.
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