People with Pseudologia Fantastica lie about everything constantly, eloquently, excessively, and chronically. They even lie about what they ate for breakfast.
Why would we want to deprive a child of the occasional uncomfortable experience at another family’s house-even one that might conflict w/our values?Isn’t an understanding of human differences a bulwark against frailty & narcissism?
As I read these studies, I couldn’t help but think about how we are telling the story of COVID-19. Are we promoting narratives that emphasize trauma or growth? Recognizing what we have learned alongside how much we have lost is worthwhile.
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Parents are spending twice as much time w/ their kids as previous generations: Survey.
Aside from kid-impact, it impacts adults, too, crowding out other friendships, which we need!
DIVERSIFY YOUR SOCIAL PORTFOLIO says
suggests we should also make time for strangers, colleagues, and acquaintances.
The more diverse our social portfolio, the happier we are and the higher our wellbeing.
Beware VITALITY VAMPIRES, anti-social actions and behaviours that suck joy from you! Staring at SCREENS is no substitute for living a life. To be wise, look UP and move TOWARD others. Watch here: https://bit.ly/3I33JcT#wisdom @dilipjeste
Engaging in physical activity 3x per week was linked with the greatest reduction in depressive symptom. The effect was greater when the physical activity was unsupervised than when it was supervised. Autonomy & agency matter too
I need wisdom NOW! So I asked 2 psychiatrists for help and they gave me 10 Easy Ways, eg, 'If you're not adding value to others, you're not wise yet. A characteristic of #wisdom is to help others.' Hear more: https://bit.ly/3I33JcT.
3. Write a “done list” of things you have already accomplished
We are so good at beating ourselves up about things left undone. A “done list” will remind you of all that you actually do.
2. You are not a bear
Go outside. More time spent in outdoor light was associated with better mood outcomes, better quality sleep, and ease of wakening, according to a study of over 400,000 people.
1. Just say hi
Reach out to someone you haven’t spoken to in a while. Research shows that we way underestimate how much the simplest text or call means to our friends, family members and colleagues.
They will feel better. So will you.
Does January feel like the Monday of months? More than any other time of the year, people dread it.
Here are 3 ways to make January just a little bit better: a thread…
Being a critical thinker is about more than challenging other people's assumptions. It also requires you to rethink your own views.
The top 22 ideas about life, work, and well-being that you enjoyed rethinking with me in 2022...
Rather than telling yourself you'll stop doing something, tell yourself you're going to start doing something instead. We’re more likely to stick to approach-oriented goals than avoidance-oriented ones.
1/n. New communication piece by myself & colleagues discussing the increasingly plausible role of social media as an incubator of personality & behavioral mental illness symptomatology. https://sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0010440X22000682…
Our 8th grade Stingrays having a well deserved exam dance break. Of course our teachers are ending 2022 with a win. Love my Stingrays Happy Holidays @HCPS_SumnerHS
Is sugar the new nicotine?
Even controlling for other factors, kids w. a sugar-heavy diet were:
- More likely to develop diabetes, high cholesterol & arthritis as adults.
- Less likely to attend university, land skilled jobs & build wealth.
https://nber.org/papers/w30799