My partners mother died last year, and it was honestly like a weight was taken from him. He has always said he remained in contact due to pressure of society, when in reality the healthiest thing to do should have been to disassociate. The 2.4 perfect family dynamic is a myth
If you don’t understand how anyone could sever ties with a close family member, count your blessings, feel grateful, understand what you don’t know and STFU.
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Yep. Glad he’s now free.
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Having done this with an entire side of my family I can say that the ease is proportional to the reasoning. It was very easy for me, but the reasoning was a devestation for years.
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Exactly. It’s the end point.
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One word - narcissist. I have had more kindness and support here on Twitter from strangers than I have had from my own family.
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Who, her dad? It would certainly appear so.
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Ppl doesn’t understand that it’s never one thing that makes you sever ties. It’s 1000s of tiny things until another tiny thing happens one day that pushes you off the cliff.
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Exactly. 40 years of my mother’s toxicity & finally I said “Enough”. Still repairing the damage tho some of it can never be healed.
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Did it myself. And I had people telling me ‘they weren’t that bad’ not from the outside. You didn’t live fear I did.
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Or ppl who told me that can’t you just talk it through? Eh no because if we could we wouldn’t be estranged.
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