The opposite: intimacy is to *reduce* vulnerability Good intimacy is when you can share things with someone and it's *not* vulnerable, because you know they won't hurt you. If there's doubt — eg your models of them say they may hurt you / you don't know — you're taking a risk.https://twitter.com/BLUNDERBUSSTED/status/1251667761169944582 …
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If you never do anything with your friends that you couldn’t do with an enemy, your friendships aren’t very deep.
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I don't think that is vulnerability though. That's knowing some well enough that you're not vulnerable even when you reveal things that would bite you if you revealed to an enemy. It's similarly not vulnerable to hang out with a gym rat friend. They're not gonna hurt you.
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