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    1. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      just identifying the pattern as “evil” is a *totally inept* form of guidance for people who struggle with insecurity. It’s a useful wake-up call if you weren’t previously aware of the problem, but it’s not a method for solving the problem.

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    2. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      According to the CPTSD book, it’s super common for people to realize “Oh! I have an irrational, dysfunctional behavior pattern! Now that I understand that, I’ll just never do it again.” And then you do it again. And get discouraged, and give up.

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    3. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      In a “well resourced” mental state, you feel clear, open-minded, able to take criticism, and you like yourself. You don’t feel the need to be defensive or people-pleasing or hide from reality.

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    4. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      If you switch between states like that, and states where you have overwhelming cravings to do things you know are dumb, the latter state is an emotional flashback. And “I’ll never have a flashback again, now that I know they’re Bad” is an unrealistic promise to make.

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    5. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      The book’s approach is a.) notice flashbacks *early* when they’re *little* and apply self-compassion; b.) make time for working through grief and anger at how you were mistreated in the past. Cry and yell. Put the blame on the perpetrators, instead of on yourself or on innocents.

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    6. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      (Mistreatment “counts” as such even if it’s normal in your culture. There are probably many things we think are “normal” to do to children which are wrong and damage their minds.)

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    7. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      Once I had this model, I see “triggered” behavior EVERYWHERE. “Is this person being reactive/defensive/flinchy/avoidant/appeasing?” Well, often, yes! It makes me both more compassionate and more judgmental, if that makes sense.

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    8. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      I often ask myself the question “was that person doing a dumb thing just there, or was it actually the optimal move in a game of N-dimensional chess I don’t understand?” Well, if they have the speech patterns and body language of a triggered person, it’s probably a dumb thing.

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    9. Ben Hoffman‏ @ben_r_hoffman Jan 31
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      "the speech patterns and body language of a triggered person" Can you say more about this?

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    10. Sarah Constantin‏ @s_r_constantin Jan 31
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      Hard to put in words, but like: defensiveness comes with vocal strain and saying things that are basically “I’m not guilty!” even when not actually being attacked

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      Getting mad & being unwilling to consider an idea, immediately changing the subject, trying to shut you up because hearing certain things said is unbearable, acting scared of you...

      10:42 AM - 31 Jan 2020
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