I have a few categories for people in my life: 1.) People I feel comfortable contacting at all (usually if I have something of interest to them I can share) 2.) People I feel comfortable contacting "just because" or "just to chat"; people I feel entitled to a response from
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Category 4 is basically limited to family; I think it's just impossible to have more than a handful of people you'd make *big* efforts for.
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I feel very rich in people I could collaborate substantively with (category 3) but kind of deprived of people to just do random social interaction with (category 2). Most people I know seem to have the opposite problem.
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Expanding your circle of "contactable people" (category 1) is super high value professionally. In grad school I learned that pretty much any academic or writer will reply to you if you have a thoughtful, polite question about their work.
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I know multiple people whose whole lives were transformed because they contacted a stranger whose work they admired. And even though I do this more than most people and it's been great for me, I still don't do it *enough*. https://thezvi.wordpress.com/2017/12/02/more-dakka/ … applies here.
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