...testosterone temporarily. I also had a hard time figuring out what exactly I was. I wanted to learn about the experiences of those who took t temporarily and of people whose sense of gender changed over time. I didn't think of any of that as "detransitioning".
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I don't even remember coming across the term "detransition" until years later. It just wasn't a thing back then. There were people who stopped transitioning, there were people who saw themselves as trans and then decided that they weren't, but I didn't encounter people who...
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...turned that experience into an identity. I didn't find people who called themselves "detransitioned" or "detransitioners" until years later. Anyways, all the spaces I found were trans-friendly and trans-inclusive. It was more about experience than a specific identity.
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I hung out in those spaces after I transitioned too because I did end up starting and stopping t and continued to question my gender. Those were spaces where I could find people with similar experiences. I returned to one of them again when my sense of gender became more dykey.
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This time it was nearly dead but I ended up meeting a detrans woman on there who I would later end up working with for years, helping to create the rad fem detrans women's community. That's a whole complicated story that I want to tell someday in more detail.
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But here's one thing to know. That detrans woman ended up creating a lot of resources for detrans people, including online spaces and she intentionally made them different from previous spaces for people who'd stopped transitioning. She had participated in those spaces too.
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She thought they were flawed because they were too trans-friendly. She thought the detrans culture we were creating was superior because it was built off a "trans-critical" analysis. The detrans women's community was built on anti-trans politics from the start and set itself...
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...against both previous resources for people who stopped transition and the trans community more broadly. We also helped create the whole concept of a detrans woman, defined and described what it was and gave people the space to take it up. I've literally seen a set of...
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...experiences get turned into an identity and linked to specific politics. I watched and helped to bring a whole new identity and subculture into existence. It's pretty weird to think about. There's a lot I wish I'd done differently now. But anyways, I've seen how the same...
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...set of experiences can be approached and made sense of very differently. I've seen what kind of resources, culture, support systems and community result from these different interpretations. I have my own ideas about which approaches work better amd why.
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It's something I want to explore and write about in more depth. Both so that people know more about the history of the detrans community & to offer my perspective on how to create better resources for people who stop transitioning, have a hard time deciphering their gender, etc.
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