Ky Schevers

Since I started speaking out, I've been contacted by several detrans women who are fed up with transphobia and/or rigid ideology in some detrans communities. There are plenty of detrans people who support trans folks, have trans friends, etc.

Transphobic detrans people in no way represent all detrans people, though they often try to act like they do and work to control detransition narratives in the media and larger culture. Transphobic detrans people can even be hostile to trans-friendly detrans people.

Plenty of people detransition, work through whatever obstacles they face and get on with life. Detransitioning stops being a huge concern for lots of detrans people just like transition stops being a concern for many trans people after a certain point.

I first encountered detrans people as a teenager exploring online trans communities. Almost all the detrans people I found then were trans-supportive and welcome in those spaces. Trans people listened to their perspectives on transition, were interested in their experiences.

I don't recall seeing much conflict or hostility between trans and detrans people until the creation of detrans communities grounded in transphobic ideologies. It was only then that detransition started being strongly associated with transphobic beliefs.