This might sound strange but I don't feel like I know what it's like to be a detrans woman. I know what it was like for me to live and exist as a detrans woman but I feel different from women who are actually happy with their decision to detransition.
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That's what living as a woman ended up feeling like for me. Too much work for something that felt wrong and unreal and that made me obsess about gender amd dysphoria. My head is a lot calmer now that I've accepted that I'm trans.
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I don't have to exert any effort to be trans, I can just exist as a trans person. I have to do way, way more work if I try not being trans or try to make my trans self fit into womanhood. Trans is what I am if I let myself just be.
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I can imagine a detrans person experiencing being trans the same way that I experienced trying to live as a woman, as a burden, a performance, not worth the effort. So maybe my detransition helps me understand detrans people afterall but not in the way you might think.
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