sometimes men correctly notice women being fatphobic, transphobic, ect. but they’re not worried about the power imbalance or oppressive rhetoric so much as they just feel like they “lost” ina game they always “win”
men’s critiques too often come from a place of wounded soldier than a genuine, base pursuit of evoking justice and protection for the vulnerable and marginalized. as useless as the shitty women they wanna correct.