people will say "they don't understand" when what they actually mean is "i don't agree"
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I understand things I don't agree with all the time. But when it comes to feelings, there's dishonesty in people saying they don't get it. there's nothing to get, I said how I feel. even so you should be curious not defensive. no need to agree with what I feel to do right by me.
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if you can't understand something I see how you would be careful before agreeing or disagreeing but i urge y'all to investigate whether it's that you "don't understand" or if you're just not rocking. be honest with yourself and be honest to the people around you.
