my biggest trouble finding out i was lesbian again was being nonbinary and thinking i couldnt. not wanting to be with men was the easy part
mostly breaking habits + coming to my some conclusions. i started by 1) making the decision to not have sex with men even if I was "attracted" still, 2) focusing on creating a style instead of imitating femininities I saw get attention, 3) engaging with lesbians irl and online +
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4) exploring feelings of being loved and admired outside of the male gaze eventually deciding that loving and being loved by women + lesbians felt more free, less conditional 5) reading about compulsory heterosexuality & the lesbian existence (a part of my major at the time)
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