my biggest trouble finding out i was lesbian again was being nonbinary and thinking i couldnt. not wanting to be with men was the easy part
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i think the hardest thing is unlearning performing for men in your presentation and sexuality. that's deeper than hating or not dating men.
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when I identified as bi the things i said aloud and what i wore was more or less me about being sexually appealing. it got compulsory quick!
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i've relearned what it means to be sexy and have detached choosing to performing femininity with attracting men. it's been rough but worthy.
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mostly breaking habits + coming to my some conclusions. i started by 1) making the decision to not have sex with men even if I was "attracted" still, 2) focusing on creating a style instead of imitating femininities I saw get attention, 3) engaging with lesbians irl and online +
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