too many people can't differentiate being held accountable and being punished because most people's parents, guardians, and other relevant authority figures never really made any distinction.
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it's no wonder so many people get anxious confronting the ones who've wronged them when people's knee jerk reaction to that kind of confrontation is defending themselves
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people who've chose their relationships with you and care about you are brave and caring for communicating how you make them feel. there's trust to be built and you have to get through your own vulnerability to build meaninful relationships w/o the fear of punishment or guilt.
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communication is a collaborative effort though. you have to be a patient, willing person to confront people's wrongs and work accordingly. both sides must have open and honest intentions at that point. continue to choose to do good and be better.
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& those same people will ask “why did you wait so long to tell me” all while being mad defensive
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people act out these cycles and want you to put up with that uhmmmm NO! not happening lol
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That’s when I learned that sometimes it’s 100% okay to walk away from an issue that’s unresolved just move accordingly.
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