if you can't say no in a relationship it's built off inequality and (your) dependence aka power dynamics that flow into "casual" abuse frfr
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it's really weird that parents ask you to do things and you "have" to. they call you "have" to respond. you can't say no.
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you cant say "im busy" "i dont want that" "i dont feel like doing it" b/c you'll be threatened—a perpetual violation of consent & boundaries
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if you're honest and that frustration comes to the surface parents simply remind you that they have power over you financially and otherwise
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we teach everyone from birth that as long as you have power over someone you can violate them and their boundaries AND claim you LOVE them
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