Lately people have been telling me gender identity is a thing you feel - that you can 'feel like a woman', for example. But I legit don't understand what that means. Does feeling like a woman mean you want to wear women's clothes? Or have a vagina? Or get sexually pursued?
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Read an essay once from a woman who took lots of testosterone. Said it "flattened out" her emotions. As a guy, this makes sense. My day-to-day is directed, focused efficiency to get things done; emotion would just get in the way. Suspect this is what "feeling like a man" is.
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I too take exogenous testosterone. In my case it doesn't so much feel like my emotions are flat as that i am much more in control of them. Also, I'm more likely to feel ok about feeling negative emotions like anger.
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it's like a pair of pants. if the pants fit, you don't notice them. if they don't fit, you notice them.
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I’m not sure that’s true because I often worry about how I am communicating masculinity but never feel like a man, or a woman, or anything in particular. I think this is like the internal dialogue thing, where both sides look at each other over a gulf of mutual incomprehensiblity
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I barely feel human most of the time.
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Never. I am who I am and have been so my whole life.
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Excellent! I've been thinking about this. I don't actively think about any of my immutable characteristics very much. They just are. What I do think about is my character, my values...those things that make up the most meaningful parts of my identity and are changeable.
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0%. Thinking about my gender doesn't feel natural to me.
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Can't answer because I still don't know what it means to feel like a woman. As opposed to being aware that I am one.
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Think this would have been more telling broken out by gender.
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and, naturally, cis/trans.
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