I'm not sure why this is being presented as a gendered thing. People have interests, they pursue those interests and meet like minded individuals, group bonding may or may not happen. Repeat.
We don't 'go anywhere for community'. We go on missions, and sometimes we find collaborators along the way, and sometimes they become friends, and then sometimes we hang out together even if we're not on a mission.https://twitter.com/KTmBoyle/status/1172208240974651392 …
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Exactly. Same way we don't recount conversations that have no punchline.
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Fun fact: suburbs are designed to prevent men from gathering (see original Levittown) by not having public squares or business or spaces mixed into the community. Human males invariably form coalitions aka “the collaborators”
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Playing team sports in my 30s count?
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If I had read last two sentences my sports ventures are exactly that
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I've found that certain strips clubs can elicit loyalty and community from men. Years ago, a tornado knocked out the local power station, and this hole-in-the-wall strip club dive that I frequented (I was doing field research on wayward women) was without electricity.
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All of us pulled our vehicles up to the doors and windows and turned our headlights on which flooded the joint with light. One guy went to his workplace and brought back a generator. The show must go on.
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There doesn't need to be a superstructure in order for people to have friends... Unless they demand obedience.
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