How to choose a therapist: Ask if they accept the thousands of behavior genetics studies showing that every psychological trait is heritable, and that almost none are significantly influenced by shared family environment ('childhood experience'). If they don't, keep looking.
I believe in 'protean behavior', which is even better: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/58e2a71bf7e0ab3ba886cea3/t/58ebd885b3db2b7497989384/1491851402811/1997+protean+primates.pdf …
