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"I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, digitally or analogue, until death do us part."

I will carry a subconscious copy of you through every ego fork I undergo.

Most surprising to most people today about future marriage vows is by the end of 21st C. there won't be any. No marriage vows. no marriages, and probably no people in the modern sense of the word. Superintelligence changes everything, or it kills us all, which is also change.

Promising to use the pronoun of choice when referring to the partner.

"We shall modify our utility functions to the average (weighted by generalized intelligence) of our current utility for each world state."

"I vow to always place you First among our lovers" or some such?

The NDA you have to sign before mind melding. “I vow to keep your thoughts in confindence...”

Not the vows, but prenuptial clauses about drugs for intelligence, emotional, and sexual drug enhancements. (So there's not too big of a gap in any of those.)