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    Someone: our thoughts and prayers are with <wherever> Someone else: lololol!!!! thoughts and prayers won't help, you IDIOT!!!1111!! Me: <takes a deep breath...> A community in prayer is complex interpersonal and interactional phenomenon; while atheistic types interpret praying

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    It seems that with this practice your main "focus" is uninvolvement, which is why it might be allowing more contents of consciousness into awareness. Uninvolvement-as-intention takes up far less bandwidth and orients you inwards-outwards, not inwards-inwards.

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    Not sure if I'm forcing it to be quicker via the nature of the practice I'm doing/intention I'm setting, because when I'm doing other practices I notice like 5-10% of what I was able to notice during this last sit.

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    Holy shit. There's A LOT of stuff cycling through my consciousness in every moment. Craziest, wildest shit along with more mundane memories, judgements, etc. Fascinating and fun to observe, although currently seems to be exhausting to stay in this state for long periods of time.

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    You: This one untested supplement will restore balance to my body Your body:

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    Recipe for a good relationship: find someone whose traumas are compatible with yours.

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    30. sij

    I wish people were better at distinguishing "I understand where this person is coming from" from "I think this person is correct". I see way too many "lol can you imagine believing X" posts, and I think if you *can't* imagine it you're probably lacking crucial empathy skills.

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    30. sij

    imagine having an inner monologue lmao

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  9. proslijedio/la je Tweet
    31. sij

    most roads lead to nihilism, because intellectuals are losers and spend their time justifying their mediocrity

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    29. sij

    I love the rationalists for a number of reasons but one is that they've developed a perfect shutdown for people crying that doom is imminent/"listen up sheeple we're all gonna die" which is: "okay! bet."

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    31. pro 2019.

    19. eventually you find yourself anticipating actions that aren't remotely likely from the other person and since your model is particularly inaccurate wrt conflict, and it's actually impossible to avoid all possible conflicts...

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    31. pro 2019.

    18. one major drawback of anticipating and avoiding all possible interpersonal hurts is that your model of the other person begins to diverge dramatically from the reality divergence is inevitable but this is one way it can become insurmountable

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    31. pro 2019.

    (2/2) process them immediately as they arise which is strictly better than trying to anticipate all possible ways to hurt one another and sidestep them

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    31. pro 2019.

    16. but I've recently discovered a way out of that chinese finger trap if the two sensitive people are willing, relatively secure, and moderately skilled at describing their state to one another, they can take minor mood mismatches, conflicts, frictions and (1/2)

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    31. pro 2019.

    15. there's a failure mode between highly sensitive (perceptive of/easily affected by mild mood/tone/body language shifts) people, where they get into spirals of "hurting one another with their feelings," or avoiding saying things that might incite even a mildly negative response

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    29. pro 2019.

    12. I suspect a lot of the whole "I don't want you to do X when I ask, I want you do notice X needs doing and do it before I ask!" pattern is a plea for your loved ones to *model you more accurately*

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  17. 29. sij

    The whole thread is great, honestly. Gonna save it for future reference.

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    29. pro 2019.

    6. the feeling that you have to conceal information or self-censor in an unnatural way seems to increase cognitive overhead at an exponential rate especially if you perceive that any failures to conceal or self-censor will be punished as badly as revealing the original info

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    5. good communication feels like dancing at its best

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