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    1. Paul Graham‏Verified account @paulg 4 May 2019

      Parenting trick: When one of our kids does something really good (usually but not always at school) we give them the "royal treatment." For the next couple days, all the rules are slightly bent. Stay up late? Candy with breakfast? Ok, since they're getting the royal treatment.

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    2. Paul Graham‏Verified account @paulg 4 May 2019

      Kids' lives are full of rules, so it's very exciting to them when they're bent. But only, of course, if this is rare.

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      Paul Graham‏Verified account @paulg 4 May 2019

      Refinement: When one kid earns the royal treatment, he gets the right to confer it on his brother too, which he always does. This makes the brother grateful, which further adds to the festive atmosphere, whereas if only one kid got it, well you know kids...

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        1. Phil Oakley‏ @redbullcat 4 May 2019
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          saving this for future reference!

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        2. Chris  🇺🇲 UBI capitalist farmer‏ @whitsonwins 4 May 2019
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          Who decides the bend? All-candy breakfast? Or just half? Stay up "late" till 3am? Or like 30 mins?

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        3. Paul Graham‏Verified account @paulg 4 May 2019
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          Basically they can ask for stuff and the royal treatment is like a finger on the scale. So a little candy with breakfast, or stay up a little later. The rules are bent but not broken.

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        1. Dr. Leo‏Verified account @drleovalentin 4 May 2019
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          This last point is great since it encourages helping each other out and eliminates potential for resentment. Thanks!

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        1. Ferruccio Balestreri‏ @0xferruccio 4 May 2019
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          when is your parenting essay coming out

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        1. Cyrus Zulkarnaïan Kazi‏ @CyrusZKazi 4 May 2019
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          #parentingdoneright

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        2. Jeff Henriod‏ @JLHenriod 4 May 2019
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          Do you tell your kids that they are in “royal treatment” mode or just bend things without being explicit?

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        3. Paul Graham‏Verified account @paulg 4 May 2019
          Replying to @JLHenriod

          We tell them. That's a big part of it.

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        2. Bombay Boy‏ @abombayboy 4 May 2019
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          Its not so much gratitude as much as it is the expectation that when the other kid earns royal treatment, the favor shall be returned

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        3. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯‏ @WilliamGrobman 4 May 2019
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          There's sound evolutionary basis for unreciprocal sibling altruism

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