Okay. Blanket caveat that I am using gender stereotypes here, based on the average / most common behavior, so obviously some people or entire subcultures + communities don't react this way. 1) Women don't like sluts because sluts breaking the "rules" of securing male attention.
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Replying to @sonyaellenmann @simpolism and
It feels like unfair competition. 2) Being the slut is short-term satisfying, long-term undermines attaining what most (straight) women want "Men need to feel needed, women want to feel desired" Slut is short-term conquest —> addiction cycle of variable affection reward
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Replying to @sonyaellenmann @simpolism and
You're an easy girl. You sleep with guys you like without much convincing. They aren't as interested in you as you are in them, because there's no challenge in having you. Sex becomes a proxy for affection, whenever he makes time for you to hook up, you feel special, and then he
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Replying to @sonyaellenmann @simpolism and
goes back to not returning your texts. (Again, the caveat: It's not always toxic like this, there are sluts who seem to have a great time with their promiscuity)
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Replying to @sonyaellenmann @simpolism and
3) The dynamic is interesting: Sluts feel like a status threat to normal women because they shortcut access to male attention. But sluts are also low-status among men because they're easily attainable. (The type of man who regularly hooks up with women, which isn't all of them)
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Replying to @sonyaellenmann @simpolism and
I think I could go on but I'm curious what y'all think of that
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Replying to @sonyaellenmann @simpolism and
1/I think sluttiness is not about sex, but how one is perceived. Lots of easy girls are not known as sluts. Slut signals are typically used by women below the highest attractiveness class as a way to boost their attractiveness and get men they otherwise could not, so they can...
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Replying to @PereGrimmer @sonyaellenmann and
2/pwn the hotter girls and increase their status at least temporarily by being selected by higher status guys. The problem is that the signal loses strength when everyone in the attractiveness bracket uses it, so you see cycles of sluttiness & chastity signals.
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Replying to @paul_hundred @sonyaellenmann and
There's a tradeoff between availability and desirability. And feedback between the two. All that said, as fetching as Kristen Stewart is I am not sure I see the appeal of dumpster fucking.
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