God I had a cis woman gas light me saying that she needed to be sure I wasn’t going to take sketchy hormones and have it laced with something. And that she asks that bc of “concern”. Keep in mind this is message 5 from her on a dating app. Why do I keep matching bigoted cis ppl?
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i have had so many unmatches from people who i can only assume just read my profile after we’ve matched. it’s almost better not knowing why. it’s shitty that she used a slur, too. she doesn’t deserve you.
I don't even write cis matches since most of them unmatch anyway after a day or two. So if they don't message me I will wait at least a week before I message them.. (and when I do most of them unmatch pretty quickly.) This is far less a problem for me on OkCupid than other apps.