Ugh, I've sat in those meetings, uncomfortably
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Replying to @AadilBharwani
Say something next time. It would have meant the world to me 10 years ago if somebody had.
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Replying to @o_guest
Yeah, I probably should have. I tried to exchange sympathetic looks with the female student, to show I was sorry that she had to sit through that, but it probably wasn't enough
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Replying to @synapticlee @AadilBharwani
To be clear, present Olivia would say: "Ew, gross and unprofessional." or similar.
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Also to show how much this kind of shit stays with you, this happened 8 years ago.
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Replying to @o_guest @synapticlee
I know it doesn't change much, but that really sucks and I'm sorry
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Replying to @AadilBharwani @synapticlee
That's sweet of you to say. But you have to remember that it's not a student's *job* (nor mine) to police professors — and I'm only one rung higher really but I certainly try to do my bit.
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Notwithstanding, nobody else will say anything so it's not like anybody is trying to fix it either in many cases. If you think profs are out of line, somebody ideally should say something though regardless! You'd hope another prof did it.
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But if nobody does it, then it might have to fall on you. And that sucks, and like I said not your job, but... if everybody shirks the shit stays where it is.
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I think the real issue, is why other profs aren't saying anything. That's the really disturbing thing.
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Replying to @o_guest @synapticlee
Similar issues I imagine. Discomfort, power dynamics, or worse: they're oblivious, not that any of that is an excuse
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Replying to @AadilBharwani @synapticlee
In this specific case, it was "bros hanging out" even though is was NOT bros doing shit, it was a professional meeting of academics they all happened to be men who are fucking clueless.
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