One of my closest friends in primary school was also the person who bullied me the most. While I thankfully have learned to detect such dynamics and so don't have such relationships any more in the present, it was a prelude to many failed ones in the interlude.https://twitter.com/christinaemoss/status/963264409840824320 …
Thank you. I've come a long way and it's not an issue any more, but I've learned a great deal. So if you're interested in my take, I sadly believe that past people even really great people, people that I like, have trouble adjusting to the new me. They still take advantage in
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small or large ways or behave as if I'm disposable or "less". This is one of the main reasons I struggle to stay in contact even with really great people from the past. People have trouble seeing and accepting new aspects of people they know/knew well.
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Obviously people I've met since I've changed and become a lot stronger, so anybody after 2016, don't have an old me to reflect on or base their behaviour on.
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I think this is one of the hugest stumbling blocks when recovering. Your support network can't actually support you because you're not "you" anymore.
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