Not sure people explicitly realise this, but when somebody is hurting and opens up and talks about it, one of the most hurtful things the other conversant(s) can do is reorient the topic to be about them and/or to be about jocular takes on the topic.
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It's hard to do this when you're the one hurting, so let's just all have each others' backs.
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On a related note — PSA: DO NOT GASLIGHT PEOPLE! I recently, witnessed some serious gaslighting. Please do not gaslight people. There are no 100% bad nor 100% good ppl, but there are inappropriate words and actions, promises broken, and correct or wrong retellings of events.
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