I've had these discussions too at my dept. Receive emails 'Hi guys, ...' adressing 4 men and me.
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Fully agreed. Including that some anniversaries suck. Being wrong can really be eye-opening. Problem is how does one learn that one is wrong when one thinks one is right, if no-one tells you? That's why it's so important that we trust each other to tell each other truth.
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Exactly. In the case I mentioned I realised it on my own and so I PMed the person to tell them I realised they were right all along, but like you said, in many cases we NEED to be told "You are wrong because X".
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For me it is the mark of a true friend if they'll tell you painful truths when needed. Not to harm, but actually out of care for your well being.
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I see your point. But, to be honest, I did not have the impression that
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I would argue there were playful acerbic comments from both sides, but I'm also sorry to hear you feel I acted in a way other than out of respect since I assumed we/I can discuss this on Twitter.
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I thought a PM first would be more appropriate given we already have some rapport here. Also Esther’s reaction to the convo reflected she wasn’t quite alright with how her words were interpreted imo. It would make sense to try to understand her before trying to change her.
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I’d appreciate if a friend PMs me before they come at me publicly so we have a chance at understanding each other first. But that’s just me.
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same here! which reminds me, i owe someone a "thank you" :D
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Oooh, what'd I miss?
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