OK, so you are somewhere safe? 
Maybe you aren't as safe there as you think you are? You're on the one hand saying you feel supported then saying you feel negged. It seems
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like maybe the culture isn't as supportive as you said previously? Could that be true?
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no, they are very nice! my colleagues at the dept too
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I don't know how you can say somebody who humblebrags is also nice, but I trust your judgement since I do not know them.
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no, they are not humblebragging (or just sometimes, maybe). i don't think it's anyone's fault, really
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for example, i have been complaining about perhaps not being able to do the job i like! that's also not a "real" problem.
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I wish I could say something helpful. I'm sorry if I've made things worse.
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sorry, i am frustrating you! I just wanted to say that for example the oxford women in science get togethers talk about "rejection" etc
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