Same for some gay ppl who feel that gay ppl should behave 'normal' (meaning: as heteronormative as possble) if they expect to be 'accepted'.
a social construct (what (you think) others think when they see, talk, interact with you).
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With respect to the personal construct its unknowable. You can't tell by looking at me if I hate cheese.
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With respect to the social construct its obviously knowable to various extents. I put on a top that says "do not fucking feed me cheese".
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This is why gender is complex. Nothing to do with penises or even brains directly, although people make it about them.
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For figuring all this out BTW I owe a lot of educational debt to trans women, esp
@stuxnetsource and others, because they have understood -
not only that gender as it currently is understood/described/prescribed by society is illogical BS but also that it can kill.



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I know. It's heartwrenching.
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Never look at murder rates for trans women, by which I mean, always do. It's always an outrage how QTPOC and trans and bi women are abused.
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May take-home lesson be: A feature-based approach to gender is particularly useful to show what gender is not, viz. not many-to-1 relation.
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