"There are no shortcuts to learning in life. You just have to do the work." https://hackernoon.com/learning-ai-if-you-suck-at-math-8bdfb4b79037#.wrvcls4du …
even me being good/ok only makes me an honorary man in very specific situations... So tons of intersections here 

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Does it always feel worth it?
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in what way? You mean working hard to be accepted? I never framed it that way because in Cyprus we don't have the man = geek trope.
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Yeah all the extra work on top of the work just to be seen something like the same.
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I'm now very much more accepted and accepting of myself. In the past I tried hard, but didn't get fully accepted so I'm glad I have
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given up. I just wear crop tops to work, a collar, don't really super try to socialise every day, etc. I kind of just pretend I'm in
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my own bubble. This is a huge privilege in and of itself, but it something I worked hard for.
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one of the most shocking things that happened while I was still being abused that made me realise nobody will help me is that a
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coworker took pleasure in telling me that I'm only a goth because I'm depressed. LOL she's a scientist.



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