First, there’s no such thing as “just being objective”. Sheesh! Second, this really is toxic behavior. Third, don’t be a dick. All of us are in this together. While we’re no better than each other, we have the ability to lift each other up.https://twitter.com/Satirony/status/1137138657679368192 …
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It also worries me a little their website uses a comic by Dilbert. Makes me wonder what other blind spots they have. Now, while I don't think one slip (if a slip) means they are clueless about optics I do find it interesting there is a double standard... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scott_Adams#2016_United_States_presidential_election …
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I wouldn't read too much into that myself, but maybe I'm too optimistic! Similarly, I don't think most people fundamentally lack kindness - some people might not show kindness because e.g. they're scared or feel out of their depth.
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I don't think it's a fundamental lack in the sense they can never be kind. I think they have learned not to be in certain contexts. This isn't the example I have like this, I can list off at least another 10 no problem. At least one per year in academia.https://twitter.com/o_guest/status/1137246214293000193 …
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In fact the reason I find it heartbreaking/disgusting is that they can be kind, as evidenced by seeing them do just that, but they chose not to be to certain people.
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Yeah - that kind of thing both saddens and angers me, and you're right that it happens a lot. I guess I'm just more optimistic that things can change, but then I say that from a position of huge privilege on pretty much every dimension...
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(except perhaps my weird surname and tendency to tan quickly...)
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I think things can change, but I don't think it's easy. It seems to be to be a typical case of "you can say you offer training/help to those who need it but if none of them think they need it, it's impossible to train/help anybody".
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It's painful to watch those who are the most responsible/poster people for bad behaviour be the same as those who seem to (superficially) decry it. Like the classic case of the male ally to feminism being an abuser.
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