Every time I csll my parents, I get deadnamed & misgendered AND a lecture about my weight & my partner who they dislike. Now today they have the gall to say they don’t understand why I never call.
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Parents insist that they can’t really be hurting me b/c they love me so accidental hurt is my fault for being hurt. And that doesn’t sit right?
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Like if they really loved me they wouldn’t deadname & misgender & insult, right? That’s not how love works.
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Just...need some reassurance I’m doing the right thing in minimizing my interactions & hanging up when they break my boundaries, b/c I feel so guilty for doing it.
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Need to be reminded that I’m not ruining their Christmas by not calling, they’re ruining their Christmas by pushing me away
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I had to cut off contact with my parents for similar calibre of shit. You will feel so much better and be able to have a clear head to decide if you want to talk to them again. IMHO cutting them off helps them put their BS into perspective — they will lose you, etc.
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