I think when the narrative is run by those who are never "*actually* [...] forced into silence" they literally cannot imagine what it's like. Privilege.
I'm pretty sure I and others as gender, ethnic, etc. minorities already have pretty solid bonds. We don't need extra. 
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They always need maintaining.
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Sorry, but I can't tell if you're tweeting at me in good faith or not.
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that ones perspective is too incomplete to accurately grasp what ppl are going on about & then to start listening & reflecting. Why are some able to make that switch while others unable to? Also sincerely asking.