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shrew and I have discussed this. One big difference between our chart and other lists of sexist tactics is that we didn’t specifically call out Derailing/Distracting. But that’s because we split it into several distinct (we think) techniques for doing that. 1/2
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Tone Police and Himpathy (and Cookie) center the man’s feelings. The Prestige centers the woman’s low status / illegitimacy. Mansplainer and Sea Lion try to reduce the woman’s point to technical quibbles. Gaslighter tries to undermine the idea that misogyny even exists.
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That’s why we didn’t have a Guy called The Derailer: it’s mostly derailing! But we thought these tactics were distinct enough (and can be handled in distinct ways) to merit being listed separately
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Speaking of derailing... this is amazing.http://www.derailingfordummies.com/
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@o_guest for that link! Thanks@shrewshrew for clarifying! I was indeed thinking about what exact type of derailing it was, but given your analysis it seems in this particular case it is a mix of most of them. Making it such a moving target it seems.2 replies 0 retweets 2 likes -
I think it's a big dose of this IMHO:http://www.derailingfordummies.com/derail-using-retaliation/ …
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The headings really fit some of the patterns: Don’t You Have More Important Issues To Think About Your Experience Is Not Representative Of Everyone Unless You Can Prove Your Experience Is Widespread I Won’t Believe It You’re Not Being A Team Playerhttp://www.derailingfordummies.com/derail-using-retaliation/ …
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And then some of these too: You’re Not Being Intellectual Enough/You’re Being Overly Intellectual You’re Interrogating From The Wrong Perspective You’re Arguing With Opinions Not Facthttp://www.derailingfordummies.com/derail-using-intellectualism/ …
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This too actually: It’s Only The Internethttp://www.derailingfordummies.com/derail-using-humour/ …
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These: But That Happens To Me Too! But I’m Not Like That – Stop Stereotying!http://www.derailingfordummies.com/derail-using-entitlement/ …
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Iris van Rooij @IrisVanRooijReplying to @bradpwyble @theblub and 3 othersSome ppl seem to think twitter is not ‘real life’ & being a jerk on twitter is OK. How ppl are treated here has consequences. I actually think both your responses are derailing from/ignoring this point (from a position of privilege). You don’t see it, so it‘s not a real issue?1 reply 0 retweets 3 likes - 3 more replies
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