This disheveled middle-aged man stopped me in the street to tell me my hair was nice. I said "thank you" because why not? Not cat calling IMHO. Like an actual compliment. He just walked off. 
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Replying to @o_guest
Very cool, and thanks for putting this out there! Makes it clear to the dudebros out there who are all, "What, I can't even give someone a compliment without being accused of harassment?" that no, that's totally possible, & really the problem is them.
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Replying to @JoshFessel
Yes, BUT and it's a BIG BUT context matters too. If I'm alone at night you best not talk to me even if you think my hair is fantastic.
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Replying to @o_guest @JoshFessel
This kind of made me reflect on the occurrences that I have been spontaneously complemented & they’re non-zero, non-gender correlated & pleasant each time. Have had the privilege of never having the cat calley sexual harassment type, but non threatening compliments are good
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Replying to @PsyTechOli @JoshFessel
Yeah. My hair does look amazing BTW so I do get compliments at conferences actually. It's very shiny when I wash it every day as I do at conferences.
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Normally at work, esp in the past, people used to ask "what have you done" when I washed it and I would say " I washed it" and they would feel sheepish — haha. I wash more often now then phd/first postdoc.
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Replying to @o_guest @PsyTechOli
I'm jealous of anyone who can go more than 18-24 hours without washing their hair & not look like a derelict. My wife can go days & look beautiful! I go *one* day & I'm visibly icky.
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OMG harsh. I look fine just not as shiny. 
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