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Joined February 2009

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An emotionally immature partner can keep up appearances. They might have a good job, be overall responsible, and be seemingly well adjusted in society. Emotionally, it's a different story. You can't get close to them. They shut down. They blame all issues on you, and rarely… ~~~~~~~~~~ hf3f8e3a 992bba08-8399-4bde-ab97-c1305e64876 SSR-I18N f2c6ac64-eb07-4bf8-bb18-52a36cf153b7 hf3f8e3a ~~~~~~~~~~
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dating is so hard now. Everyone’s on guard. A whole competition. Who calls first. Who is less affectionate. act like you don’t really need them so they don’t get too comfortable with you. You can’t just be yourself? It’s very stressful.
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When you live in Essex and apply for a fast-track passport appointment. You want me to fly to get it? 🤣
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21 years today my eldest brother died in a car crash. This is your reminder to write nice cards to people you love and keep the ones you get. ❤️
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Hi and , how can i get in touch with people who run your websites? You posted my personal email on both sites without my permission and I need it removed ASAP. Tried calling you but the line is dead…
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What’s the longest anyone’s deactivated their IG for, and logged back in and it was fine? Seen some stuff online that says they might delete it completely after 30 days
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Some books are meant to be read at specific times in your life. You might struggle to read it initially but one day the words flow effortlessly. As though the book wasn't ready for you but now it is —  where its insights are perfectly suited to your current life experience.
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The two most expensive things in the world; 1. Peace of mind 2. Time. Once you lose your mind, you never get it back. That’s the end of you. Time is a valuable commodity. Time wasted can never be recovered.
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honestly, if u know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
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once you realize that 90% of mean things that people say is projection coming from a place of insecurity you won’t even trip , can’t even let other people’s demons effect you
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Watching Bear Grylls Meets Zelensky and he just seems like the sweetest man. Called his wife his best friend 🥺 the English fuckbois of 2023 could learn a thing or two from him
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stop👏🏽forgiving👏🏽people👏🏽that👏🏽hurt👏🏽you👏🏽over👏🏽and👏🏽over👏🏽just👏🏽because👏🏽you👏🏽don't👏🏽want👏🏽to👏🏽lose👏🏽them
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35 is too old to be dating apparently! Damn. Guess that’s me and dating finished forever
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Aswering police 999 calls for a job a lot was harrowing. But listening to the screams of a woman whose car had been hit, which had caused her dog to be thrown through the windscreen still haunts me. Secure your dogs in your car please.
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Whenever I’m envious of someone I ask myself ‘would I be willing to switch lives with them?’ And 99.9% of the time my answer is no—it’s grounding this way because you realize you can’t cherry-pick what you want without enduring the parts you don’t want. Most of the time when we… Show more
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Most of the time, a degree is just a sign that you can do work you hate for years without pursuing your own thing, and that's exactly what employers want.
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i wish more people would invest time into themselves and their hobbies instead of using people they don’t care about to deal with their loneliness but that would mean confronting their shadow side. i know a lot of people aren’t ready for that
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