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multi-disciplinary artist & archivist, trans non-binary (they/he), Igbo bby / I wanna make tender films & be in a band

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    akame‏ @nwaobiala419 11 Aug 2020

    I find the idea that having “a father figure is necessary” to be an odd idea & most likely part of patriarchy & the gender binary. Truthfully I think children simply need loving, caring community (more than one parent, a robust community), their needs met, and themselves accepted

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      2. akame‏ @nwaobiala419 11 Aug 2020

        I think the idea of needing a father figure is another way girls are taught to center cishet men. This is tied in with the idea of a nuclear family (which should be abolished). Having a father does not necessarily mean your life will be better or that there won't be more trauma

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      3. akame‏ @nwaobiala419 11 Aug 2020

        In fact, there's a major possibility that trauma and harm will be present because of patriarchy!!!!!!

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      2. Kim Dana‏ @thekimdana 11 Aug 2020
        Replying to @nwaobiala419 @Ohlookitsbecca

        I agree with you to some extent. But for some girls, having a loving and present father in your life is essential. It’s the first man you fall in love with and teaches you what to expect from a man that actually loves and cares for you. They set that bar.

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      3. akame‏ @nwaobiala419 11 Aug 2020
        Replying to @thekimdana

        Not all girls are heterosexual lol. I suggest you read Communion by bell hooks

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      2. blue raspberry (derogatory)‏ @bigdoggenergy 11 Aug 2020
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        I want my kids to have role models of every gender but fuck a father figure I want them to have an uncle figure, a third grade teacher figure, a neighbor with two dogs figure. parents shouldn’t be a kids whole life and fathers are not essential to kids well being.

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      3. Mady  💕 ✨ 🍑 💅🏼 🥑‏ @Mady13444 12 Aug 2020
        Replying to @bigdoggenergy @nwaobiala419

        I grew up with a big extended family and it’s honestly the best family model there is- whenever I didn’t want to talk to my parents about something, there were several other people I COULD talk to (aunts, big sister figures, cousins, grandmas, etc).

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      1. Bulletproofkrew‏ @bulletproofkrew 12 Aug 2020
        Replying to @nwaobiala419 @WannasWorld

        The mens are necessary in our society it's not a gender or patriarchy idea

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      2. dumbshit (affectionate)  🏳️‍🌈 🔞‏ @hesaknottyboy 12 Aug 2020
        Replying to @nwaobiala419 @ddyschaton_noir

        What I think is funny is father figures are "necessary" for girls but there is such a widespread phenomenon of men failing their daughters on fundamental levels that we have a name for it. Daddy issues. Yet we blame the daughter for acting out or seeking love in the wrong places.

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      3. Ayla  ✨‏ @AuntieAyla 12 Aug 2020
        Replying to @hesaknottyboy @nwaobiala419 @ddyschaton_noir

        THIS

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      2. Mady  💕 ✨ 🍑 💅🏼 🥑‏ @Mady13444 12 Aug 2020
        Replying to @nwaobiala419 @ktbentson

        My aunt has three daughters, all about four years apart from the nearest sibling. Their dad, who was a very nice guy, died in 2014. My family, being a tight-knit Latino family, decided we didn’t want to let them feel that loss long-term, psychologically.

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      3. Mady  💕 ✨ 🍑 💅🏼 🥑‏ @Mady13444 12 Aug 2020
        Replying to @Mady13444 @nwaobiala419 @ktbentson

        We (my family having like a 5:1 ratio of women to men) surrounded them with love, we showed up to their every event, went on vacations, and did fun things with them. My dad and grandpa are the male figures in their lives, and they learn about relationships through all of us.

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