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Lol she initially asked “you want me to come by?” and he says “you can do that.” Me, personally, I’d ask for that clarity because “you can do that” sounds passive as hell as opposed to “yes, I want you to come by.”

If she asked “can I come by” and his response was “yes you can,” that sounds more affirming because that’s what she’s asking & it’s more proactive on HER end. “Do you want me to come by?” asks something different & leans specifically on what HE wants. Saying “you can” isnt clear

This video is hella prolonged (as are the manyyyy conversations with y’all niggas) because women are asking y’all what y’all want and y’all don’t just answer with “I want this.” Lol that’s all that’s being asked for

That’s like me asking “do you want me to buy you this shirt?” and you say “you can.” But like... do you want it? Do you think you can wear it or are you just trying to appease me?

“Why can’t you just come to the conclusion that he didn’t want her around?” That’s PRECISELY the point of what I’m saying. Lol. If you don’t want someone around just say “no. I don’t want you around” and not “you can come” in response to “you want me to come by?”

Again. This video is a prolonged conversation that I, personally, would’ve ended under the excuse men give me about “guy brains vs. girl brains.” We’re not saying the same things so I would’ve saved my attitude and continued driving home.

This is why teachers ask y’all to rephrase the question when answering them. Lol Ex. “What does Charlene ask of Xavier?” “*Charlene asks Xavier* if he wants her to come by.” Ex. “Do you want me to come over?” “*I want* you to come over” OR “*I don’t want* you to come over”