I dated this guy for six months and he never commented on my appearance in any way (other than “cool dress”) and once I was like “wait are you even attracted to me” and he was like “I just assumed you already knew you were cute.” it was very galaxy brain
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(also it annoys me when people assume I’m being sarcastic about this stuff like just bc I’m a young woman I can’t be genuinely excited there are pockets of the world where the primary thing that’s valued abt me is not my appearance)
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wait do u not get the excruciatingly awkward ones that are like "i have 0 tweets and don't go outside but here are 8 photos of me please go on a date with me" because i thought that was an sf centric symptom
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I do get cryptic ones that are like “hello, I think we’re very aligned in our thoughts” locked profile no pic and I’m like... what thoughts?? how am I supposed to know if we’re aligned
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this is definitely better than the norm in most places, and I think these interactions are basically truthful, but it feels just a shade disingenuous (for a lot of single straight men) to say it's not about physical attractiveness *at all*
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@bayes_baes this post isn't about bashing straight dudes, but feels somewhat related (re: sf dating scene, inexperienced men, n+1 incel story)https://twitter.com/bayes_baes/status/1217532753303883776?s=20 …
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Lmao
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I read that last part in a women’s voice doing an impression of a mans voice in a sarcastic tone...... so funny lol....
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