Just Nicole

@nickicarri

Grant Compliance Analyst, MPA, Music Lover, Chocolate Nibbler, Dumpling Connoisseur 🥟

Vrijeme pridruživanja: svibanj 2009.

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    Quick PS: When lots of folks start engaging w/ me, I try to look at who some of them are, esp if we've never crossed paths , & it's just so striking to me that the women responding to this are old, young, professional, students, all colors, all sexualities - all of us.

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    So this is to say: It's entirely possible that some of the men you deeply admire, for such good reasons, have done terrible things to women - & those women matter, too. And also that, if you've been hurt by a Great Man (or a small or middling man) I see you, & I believe you. 7/7

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    And everyone knows it. It's a known-known. If we were to strip our culture of everything tainted by sexual assault and abuse, we would, frankly, have very little left. We move through the world knowing our bodies and our souls are forfeit to society's need for Greatness. 4/

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    That 16 yo's humanity was less important than the actor's skill or his role in ending the blacklist. The humanity of a 19 yo hotel worker was less important than the astonishing talents of a man who recently died too young. Name a field & a few Great Men & you'll find rapists. 3/

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    And of course, it's not limited to Great Men - it's everywhere, among men small & middling, too. Don't tell anyone - the school needs him, the church needs him, the record label needs him, the family needs him, no one will believe you anyway, bc look at all the good he's done! 6/

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    So women make these bargains. Ok, he did that, but he changed. Ok he did that, but it was so long ago. Ok he did that, but the song bangs. We pick and choose the men about whom we'll ask questions, because what will be ruined, what will we lose, if we know too much? 5/

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    The girls are finally being honest about how products like DevaCurl and Miss Jessie's and tools like the Denman and the Tangle Teezer aren't as great as they told their large and desperate fanbases... A very interesting timeline indeed...

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    Are we ready to have the conversation about how J@meela Jam*l's "coming out" is being used as a tool to silence valid critique, a wedge to enter spaces which she has no ties to, and a weapon to invasively cash in on marginalized groups, and how toxic this is, or nah?

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    And this is why I hate the term “privilege.” It obscures the obvious fact that ballroom kids don’t just happen to not have the social capital Jamil has, they don’t have it because of specific violent iterations of anti-Blackness and capitalism—iterations she is fully invested in.

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    She justifies taking up space that could’ve gone to an actual member of this community by saying she has the “privilege and power” of a large following that ballroom kids don’t, so it’s important she’s there to use it to shine light on their plight (implied: instead of them).

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    Not to take away from her journey to queerness, but this statement by Jameela Jamil defending her casting as a judge on a voguing competition show as a then-closeted person with no connection to the ballroom scene really highlights the fallacy of “using one’s privilege for good.”

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    Odgovor korisnicima

    She took the deal BECAUSE she was being harassed.The defense his lawyers used on her isn’t even legal anymore because of how fucked up it is. Her treatment was so bad the reporting of sexual assaults dropped 10% in that city. That’s not “get over” that’s cutting your losses

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    prije 4 sata
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    She attempted to go through criminal and the COURT leaked her name 3 separate times and then the media leaked it again. She told her story in court. There are transcripts from her and the nurses who did her rape kit in public record

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    if you think getting paid fixes all the trauma you went through then i pray the world doesn’t ever treat you the way you treat survivors.

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    prije 8 sati

    I understand everyone is grieving but people are just lying to themselves at this point. We weren’t allowed to bring it up EVER. Not during his Oscars run. Not during the MeToo movement. Not during the ESPYs honoring not EVER. Like STOP. It was “stop dredging his past.”

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    A woman shares detail of a beautiful experience she had with another woman and men get upset because of their fragile little egos....in 2020 still....

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    If you’re a nice guy why do you have to try so hard to convince me. And then when you reject or like them as a friend then they say “women only like assholes” and then proceed to insult you. This happens so often. If you’re a nice guy doesn’t mean I should fake a connection

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    prije 3 sata

    If a guy tells you he’s a nice guy, run - there is noone nastier than a ‘nice guy’ who cannot get what he wants for you after he feels he has done all the right things and been perfectly nice. The entitlement jumps right out.

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    You cannot come out as queer to deflect from valid criticism. You cannot. Period. And I’m sorry, some of y’all are going to be mad at me, but it must be said: This is why the larger LGBTQIA+ community has an AX to grind with bisexual & pansexual folx. Because of shit like this.

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