The only evidence of what one believes is their actions. How one acts, not what one says is the proof.
What 99% do —and I include myself in that—is keep on the same course to avoid facing the real, horrible shortcomings of their character.
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Because to face them means to take responsibility for them, and to see clearly and objectively how they determine your entire existence.
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Regardless of whether one owns up to the facts about their life and character or not, they have a choice, and they are responsible.
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Very few can change, and for those who do that there is no cookie cutter way or self-help manual. They're alone in battle with themselves.
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At some point in everybody's life they have made a choice to avoid something. That something they avoid, will destroy them in the end.
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If enough time passes in the avoidance paradigm and nothing is changed, it is constantly rationalized for and a character develops around it
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At some point, it becomes so difficult to change that paradigm, that it can be said that it is indeed "too late". We all know this.
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So what to do? Stop arguing beliefs and start looking at actions. Your actions. You'll see what you truly believe in them pretty clearly.
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You can either sugar coat that truth to lessen the reality of your character, or not. If not, you'll have to manifest that truth and change.
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If you don't change by what you see, you fall back to your character, the default. And then it starts all over again.
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Long rant. My applogies. That's it.
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