Yeah, I came at that particular problem from my own cyclothymic baseline. I have periods where suffering is an overwhelming constant and I wish only for its end, and periods where it feels hardly relevant at all. Over time, that both damages and immunizes you.
Especially when those people are smarter than I am. I used to have this training partner who would deliberately not correct his mistakes when we sparred. He’d leave little gaps and let me exploit them - thus integrating the insight naturally. He was very kind, and very smart.
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A real mark of respect, that. You need to be competent enough to notice the mistake to capitalize on it. Awareness of your own weakness and that of your opponent is the foundational skill of all combat, far as I can tell.
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It’s also cool to see how people approach this stuff differently - I find it helps me notice blind spots in my own practice/life/behaviour etc.