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Musician. Jack-of-all-trades. Geek. Father.

Kitchener, ON, Canada
Joined January 2010

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    1. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      Sorta side note: I do remember an elementary sleep over with friends where we talked about our crushes, which didn't seem like a boy thing to do at the time. I wish now we had talked about feelings more

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    2. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      The Note and the mocking afterward taught me that me liking girls was weird & unwelcome. My feeling that girls didn't like me or found me creepy stuck for a long time. It's still a foundation block of my self-doubt.

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    3. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      Skip ahead to high school. I wasn't good at making friends but had friends who were. In grade 9, that led to girls becoming part of my friend group. Most of my friends & I joined the choir, which was a huge part of socializing with girls. Now I crushed on friends. Danger

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    4. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      I had a cycle of pine for a friend complete without subtly, know she didn't like me, but still tell her in a note to get it off my chest. The response was always "Oh. Wow. I think of you as a friend. Plus, I like [other guy]". Normal for high school but hurtful at the time.

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    5. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      It was creepy, Friend Zone behaviour. I know that now. I think I mostly knew that then. But I was confused and lonely. Plus, I was watching my friends pair up and wondered what was wrong with me. I was like them, wasn't I? Why didn't girls like me?

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    6. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      I'd like to think that I blamed myself and not girls. Maybe that's me looking back with rose coloured glasses to make me feel better now. But it was definitely not far from some of the incel rhetoric I've seen. I was a short walk from that thinking

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    7. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      Skip to grade 12 & prom. The couples were all going & the non-couples in our group were going together for cheaper tickets. When I asked if anyone wanted to go with me, one girl spoke up quickly. I thought nothing of it at first

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    8. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      She was sweet and quiet, and I had never noticed her before because I was always interested in more outgoing girls. I mistook their outgoing nature for interest in quiet me.

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    9. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      Another friend took me aside and said "She really likes you but is too shy to say anything. Be respectful." That changed my whole world. I didn't like her, but suddenly I was in the place I had put all my previous crushes. I didn't want to hurt her but I didn't want to date her

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    10. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      I realized how shitty I had been. I didn't change overnight. It took years & more crushes. But I didn't write any more notes. I kept quiet and if something happened great! If it seemed like feelings were reciprocated, I would slowly spend more time with her. I got better slowly

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      Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27

      Part of incel rhetoric I see is devaluing anyone who actually likes you. Degrading them or seeing them as a lesser number than you. Guys aren't taught about to handle rejection AND we're not taught about respecting the feelings of others. We have to change that.

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        2. Anita Kilgour‏ @the_nita Apr 27
          Replying to @mikeelg

          Thank you for sharing that. And thank you for getting that. Part of my appreciation for you has been you being willing to do the self examination.

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        3. Michael Elg‏ @mikeelg Apr 27
          Replying to @the_nita

          Self knowledge takes a while and is painful. But usually worth it. And hey, if anxiety brain is going to marathon my greatest failure, I might as well learn from it. It's the best way I've found to quiet it down

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        4. Anita Kilgour‏ @the_nita Apr 27
          Replying to @mikeelg

          Absolutely. You learn by looking at the mistakes and pulling them apart to find what you did and what you can change. Almost always painful but absolutely necessary.

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        1. Todd Bolus‏ @ToddBolusPLLC Apr 27
          Replying to @mikeelg

          Speak for yourself. It’s not up to me to fix the loserdom inherent among incels - they’ve got to man the hell up.

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