Recently, @SimpsonDaniK told me to check out a Masterclass by Sarah Blakely, founder of @SPANX. Her dad asked his kids "what have you failed at this week?", every week. Instilled an attitude of constantly striving for progress. She would feel stagnant if she hadn't failed at sth.
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I love this re-definition of "failure"... the only real failure is not taking risks, trying something new. You must allow yourself to be terrible at something before you can master it.
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- allow autonomy -> internal locus on control - answer their questions and ask them follow up questions -> creativity - feedback + incentives based on promoting intrinsic motivation - praise effort, not results - praise failure + high aspirations
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- expect self-discipline (age-appropriate) - praise + practice following your curiosity & interests
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Teach by example.. and share your process, not only your result. My grandfather was a master at this. As kids, he let us work beside him and talked us through the why at each step along the way.
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Don’t punish failure, but treat it as a learning experience, and encourage them to try, try again
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(Not a parent, but lucky to have two great ones)
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Attitude reflects leadership. I know it’s cliche but true.
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I think leading by example only goes so far. We struggle with answering this question in my own house. You have to give them the freedom to put it into action and that includes the freedom to fail and recover. I’ve only been a parent 10 years. Still no clue what I’m doing.
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I think the only real way is to model the behavior we want them to exhibit. Which is the whole damn problem. My own failings take on double weight bc they also affect my kids. So parenting then, is really about self-growth, which is the hardest thing of all.
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Wydaje się, że ładowanie zajmuje dużo czasu.
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