Fast forward many years. In 2017, I was depressed. I was grappling with some hard stuff in my personal life. At the same time, I'd allowed feelings of cynicism grow inside of me. This resulted in me being resentful towards anyone who seemed happy and earnest.
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@dr_mitch_kusy make this point in their book: "Toxic people are often self-righteous. [They] cannot find fault in themselves. This is the reason that explaining their behaviors to them often doesn’t work." https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00263ZLGW/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_AIwHDb4CJFW6Q …pic.twitter.com/knC0nF7s5o
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I'm not sure what the right solution is for dealing with negative people online. Here are my current thoughts: 1. Ignore people who are consistently toxic and negative. 2. For myself, be open to correction from my trusted friends: "Hey Justin, that wasn't nice." 3. Be kind.
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If you've ever felt metaphorically "punched in the face" by someone online: I know how much it sucks. I hope this thread helps you recognize: - you're not alone - their behavior is not OK - comments from a toxic person have nothing to do with you
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No need to "unroll;" I've written this whole thread up as a blog post here:https://justinjackson.ca/haters
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Just updated that post again (4 hours later) to clarify some of the thoughts.
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