Mike Solana

I’ve been self censoring pretty effectively for years now.

You're just the right amount

While it helps to be mindful that you can’t completely control your emotions, its a little hypocritical to expect that of others. If I’m annoying to other people they’re going to dislike it.

Yeah, destined for a life of solitude. Haha

Wouldn’t say I’m especially smart but my high school was full of cavemen (avg SAT >10% below national average). Everyone told me to “cut it out” when I tried to tell them about stuff I read in my free time so I suppressed it. Only barely recovering from that now 10+ years later.

Hey there

If I’m expecting to being good friends with someone, I like to establish boundary setting behaviors (for them) so the relationship isn’t set up for failure. I know my weaknesses.