michael_nielsen

I love following people who are generous and positive and inspiring, people like @juliagalef and @TheFrankOzJam.

A great question in all fora is "What is conversation for?" Honestly answering the question for myself is sometimes confronting! And it's interesting to think about what other people may be using conversation for, their implicit (or maybe explicit) models.

There are Twitter uses who use it: to complain, often as a means of tribal bonding (many complaints about politics and social issues); to nitpick; to be outraged; to establish their superiority in some way.

Politics on Twitter is particularly strange. Many otherwise extremely bright people suffer from Dunning-Krugeritis on this: they think they're insightful, but constantly tweet recycled talking points I can hear in a million other places.

(Yes, I'm guilty of all of this on occasion! Working on it!)

When determining whether I want to follow someone, I look at their last 10 or tweets. Do those Tweets make me happy? Feel awe? Feel more optimistic? Feel the urge to do something? Teach me something strange and wonderful? Reveal a new world? I'll almost certainly follow.

The amazing thing - the truly incredible thing - that Twitter reveals is that there are effectively an infinite number of such people in the world. Of course, I've always known it, and in big cities it's easy to experience. But T makes it such a routinely lived experience.

If they make me angry, or feel outrage, or feel sad... well, I'll be very, very cautious in following. Those aren't what I usually want in my life. That's not to say there aren't very insightful people I follow like this. But I am cautious.