Expectations are an attempt to control the world, and they will eventually disappoint or destroy. They're in the basket of things that need to be held lightly, along with identities and ideologies.
I disagree that identities should be held lightly. Holding them closely is one of the most enjoyable parts of being alive!
-
-
But whyyyyyyy?
-
It's really an empirical observation. My life has gotten better when I got more invested in different parts of my identity! More sadness & heartbreak, too, but on balance: better!
- 7 more replies
New conversation -
-
-
Be careful choosing your fixed points. Becuaase they will be the source of all your heartbreak. But choosing your fixed points is the essence of life
- 14 more replies
New conversation -
Loading seems to be taking a while.
Twitter may be over capacity or experiencing a momentary hiccup. Try again or visit Twitter Status for more information.