Marie La

@mesolude

Like warm butter on the toast of despair 🌱the opposite of judgment is curiosity || rationalist, dungeon master, writer

San Francisco, CA
Vrijeme pridruživanja: siječanj 2013.

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  1. Prikvačeni tweet
    27. sij

    Newest blog post: Energy Healing????? Come in with questions on energy healing, leave with those same questions and more. Help me understand what's going on.

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  2. prije 11 sati

    The CTL training is installing new conversational software into willing + compatible people. To start, everyone sounds robotic. The software isn't integrated. "Uh, I'm hearing that you're feeling..?" Then when it's internalized, we can mod it and add in our own flavor.

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    1. velj

    How many people contracted the 2009 H1N1 flu? (don't look it up)

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  4. 31. sij

    Longer conversations aren't more helpful. Once you build rapport, explore the issue, know what they're looking for, collaboratively search for solutions together, and make a plan, stop! Rumination and repetitive circling around are easy patterns to fall into.

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  5. 31. sij

    The guidelines are consistent with Authentic Relating (AR) and Non-Violent Communication (NVC). It's about empathy and listening, not judging, sympathizing, or trying to fix problems. broke: "I'm sorry" "have you tried X?" woke: "I hear you" "what does help look like for you?"

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  6. 31. sij

    Even the training is emotionally hard! I'm remembering the times in my past when I could have used someone like me, and wishing I (or someone else) had been there for past-me. Plus it's tiring to rewire thought patterns.

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  7. 31. sij

    They can assert things like "if you use the words 'strong/brave/proud', the texter is X% more likely to rate the conversation as helpful." Or, that the data debunks the myth that bringing up suicide will plant the idea in someone's head, and that it's safer to ask explicitly.

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  8. 31. sij

    I'm often cynical about organizations and institutions. This one is astoundingly effective and actually trying. The online training is great. CTL has the world's largest database on crisis conversations, and they're using it to increase the effectiveness of volunteers like me.

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  9. 31. sij

    I'm training to be a counselor for Crisis Textline (CTL), an asynchronous resource for cooling people down from hot moments. Already, I've learned a lot. CW suicide etc. Thread:

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  10. 31. sij

    Aspirational. My and all y'all's oversanitized personas need to act more from honesty than fear

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  11. 27. sij

    Getting clicker trained by internet strangers with no skin in the game feels uhh dangerous I turn off Twitter notifications from accounts that don't follow me to avoid this

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  12. 25. sij

    Made an alt to talk about tabletop RPGs, enthusiastic spewing of a year of pent up thoughts ensues

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  13. 24. sij

    This was a super cute hell of a good idea

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  14. 24. sij

    Anyone have recs for relatively math-light books on decision theory? I use BS decision theory all the time to think about cooperating with other people, my internal subagents, and myself through time. It's so useful. I expect a more formal understanding would pay off big time.

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  15. 13. sij

    . brought up nocebos, placebos' negative opposite. And that we might be experiencing nocebo effects /right now/, which could be some sweet sweet low hanging fruit if so

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  16. 12. sij

    I badly want to understand what that 'something' is that a colored pill or an entire surgery might trigger

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  17. 12. sij

    Discussion about placebos often focuses on the boring thing: "gotcha, the treatment didn't work the way you thought it would.." The cool thing about placebos is past that: "..didn't work the way you thought it would, because the body did ??something?? and fixed itself"

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  18. 12. sij
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    10. sij

    Romeo Stevens comes in with the best explanation I've seen of Suffering and Craving in Buddhism!

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  20. 7. sij

    Annoying stuff is hard to ignore and has little info, like snoring or dripping water. Boring stuff is hard to pay attention to but does have info, like driving or a dry lecture.

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